Swinging and the ranch sequence

Sequence

Just a note about these stories, these stories are true. Although they occurred approx. 12 - 15 years ago, they are as accurate as time and my memory can tell them. If there are some factual errors, I apologize although I'm not sure who would be aware of our sex life enough to be able to point out where I may have strayed. I have chosen to write these stories up as a method of reliving and remembering what happened. Even at 71, I still get hard reliving these events.

First a note about The Ranch. I became aware of The Ranch poking around on the Internet. The Ranch was an on premise swinging place that was actually the home of Jim and Janey. They had been in the lifestyle for many years and realized how hard it was for like minded individuals to get together. They bought a large house outside the city limits to avoid city ordinances. They engaged a lawyer to protect themselves and the attendees. They also brought in a policeman and fireman from other communities to help protect their interests. The Ranch had been in operation for several years before I became aware of it, but Janey died and within a year after that Jim shut things down and moved away much to the sadness of several hundred members that attended the weekly parties there. There were a few complaints about Jim trying to make money from the operation of The Ranch but I figured they were providing a service and they provided the space, clean sheets, beds, snacks, condoms, etc. every Saturday night for years. If they made a little profit, good for them.

Here is the proper sequence to read my stories

Thoughts about swinging - there really isn't a sequence for this write up.

As Amanda and I went through the process of trying to decide if we should try swinging, several thoughts and ideas came to mind. This write up (I wouldn't call it a story) expresses some of what I/we went through making this decision.

Amanda's boobs - From her early days when her boobs just started to develop, Amanda was very insecure about her them. They were bigger than her friends and they appeared sooner. They were even bigger than many of her teachers. This is a story about Amanda's big boobs and her learning to appreciate them.

Amanda's sex life evolves. Amanda grew up a shy reserved catholic girl that not only wasn't made aware of sex and sexuality, she was made to feel that sex was a negative thing. As we grew together her knowledge and openness regarding sex changed. She even came to enjoy many aspects of sex.

Boobs Out - Once Amanda learns to recognize her sexuality and the benefits of having big boobs, she finally overcomes her shyness and hesitantly starts to utilize her boobs for her own and others enjoyment. She finally allows others to see her boobs, and recognize that the people seeing her boobs enjoy them too.

Boob play - the next step in the process of getting the benefit of her boobs is allowing others to touch and feel them. Amanda finally allows someone other than her husband to intentionally touch and feel her boobs. The sensations are better than she ever imagined.

Amanda's first time swinging - Although the process of swinging for the first time didn't really fall into line with the sequence of enjoying, showing and sharing her boobs, this could be 4th, 5th, or 6th in the sequence. Since it could have been the culmination of the process it actually wasn't. Her anxiety over her boobs may have contributed to her less than satisfactory experience the first time she was with someone other than her husband.

Amanda finally let's lose - It is time! This is the culmination of the activities Amanda and I shared at the Ranch. It was a long time coming, probably 18 months but it went through all the steps necessary for her to be comfortable with herself, her marriage, and her feelings and enjoyment regarding sex. When the time finally came out it was exquisite for her and for me, although it sadly wasn't to be repeated it was the marker that resides in my mind for the rest of my years.

More to come? Although I have noted the high times of our times at The Ranch, I may come up with more stories from The Ranch or other times and places, might include some fiction in further writing