by Brittni4u
You have identified the key element,"A good blowjob starts and ends with enthusiasm." One that makes an honest effort and perseveres will most times experience the pride and satisfaction of achieving the deep throat.
Just like intercourse. Once you do it, you love it, and you never stop doing it.
My wife is 66, has always loved sucking my cock and still loves sucking my cock. Yes, she deep throats as well, sometimes better than others, sometimes unbelievably well. She would never have the gumption to write her technique here, but I am quite familiar with it.
Her biggest problem is not being able to hold her breath very long, unfortunately for me. However, she is able to take me all the way in and lick and tickle my balls with her tongue, and do it over and over.
She only does it when we are in the 69 position. Her best deep throat action is when we are orally stimulating each other and she starts to cum and has one of her intense and longer orgasms. When that happens, she literally swallows me and pulls me all the way in and allows me to fuck her throat. She almost forgets to breath. Like fucking a pussy with a tongue. Absolutely incredible.
We have a lot of fun together.
I wish everyone the best of luck with their deep throat endeavors.
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Since guys love blowjobs, we can use all the advice and instruction on this subject. 5 Stars.
Britt, congratulations on a piece that not only entertains...it is highly valuable for couples where the wife wants to put a little something extra in those blowjobs. Think of all the couples you've helped with this article, they should all be thanking you - well done!
Great job of letting us girls know how to deep threat. This is a talent where most of us can always learn more. Thanks for a very well written piece on a very important subject. xoxoxoxo Annette
I have been deepthroating for years but you said something I did not know and that is not moving the tongue too far out or you will gag. They say you are never too old to learn and you just taught a 61 year old about the tongue action. But everything else you said I already knew. Great job Brittni!
I'm commenting for my wife who would never read Literotica. Once she started sycking my cock about 50 years ago she loves doing it. She especially likes it if my cock is not rock hard. She's good at what she does and I love it.
In my opinion, it's easiest to deep throat if it's over 6 inches. I haven't had much success with anything under (which annoys my current fwb but he can suck it up)
Awesome tips!!! I love doing this. My obstical is for some reason if there's air pressure in my mouth, I gag. Might not work for everyone, but other than staying relaxed, and using 'lugies' for lube instead of normal thin saliva, my biggest tip is keep the air out of your throat, as it puts extra pressure on your gag reflex.
Love this read!!!
I have two problems when I give blowjobs. One, is the size of my jaw; it can't open very wide and has annoyed my dentist to no end. So whenever I give a blowjob, I'm constantly afraid the dude is feeling my teeth since I can't open any wider. The second problem is my stamina, or lack thereof. I can't seem to last any longer than 5 minutes at my best, which I realize is pretty pathetic. But it just gets boring for me, especially since I would never do it if guys didn't like it so much. Do you have any tips for me regarding these two things?
Also as a side note, most of the guys I've given blow jobs to have been uncircumcised, and I got pretty used to what they liked and what they didn't, but my most recent dude was circumcised and I couldn't tell if my usual techniques were having any effect on him. Could you tell me if there are any differences in terms of what to do for guys who are circumcised versus guys who aren't or if there are any differences?
Sorry I realize this is a lot, but I just have a lot of questions.
Somebody mentioned how to open your throat.
Think of yawning, yawn.
When you yawn, the throat seems to relax and opens. Compare this to swallowing food. Swallowing is like a clamping down, the muscles constrict.
When you feel him at the opening to your esophagus, YAWN.
It's the difference between forcing something to happen and allowing something to happen. Be patient, it's worth it.
I treat the big ones like this: Get it in and down your throat while it is still growing, it will bend and shape your throat far easier. Also, get him up on his knees, the force of gravity seems to work magic for a quick explosion for him. I can park a finger in his ass cracking and another pressing up just behind his balls and he will go full rabbit and come quickly, so quickly he will usually have another two or so just from shock.
I used a toothbrush to gently eliminate the gag reflex in less than a week. Your throat will be sore so use two pillows to sleep to keep from getting flu. Don't brush your teeth or gargle with mouthwash, flush with water to avoid the little abrasions for at least a day. Never let a big dick think he's different than a little one or you'll spoil him with a big ego. After all, the little dick works fully as well, your good stuff is right on the top anyway so why other than the circus sideshow aspect of it do we care?
I used the tips here, and still am, in practicing giving my husband of 22 years oral pleasure. he can make me come in 2 minutes or less, now its my turn! Thank you for the tips here!
This was an interesting lot of info. As a man who enjoys bj's I have always been worried about losing control and hurting my partner so have tended to be passive in this activity. Useful to have a thought out comment from the female perspective. Thanks. A.F.C. Somerset
This was a lot of good information. I think I suck cock very well, but I see I have room to improve and increase both his pleasure and mine. Thank you for sharing.
I’m not sure how or why it works, if it’s neurological or just a distraction technique, but wiggling your toes is a great way to control your gag reflex. I learned this from my dentist years ago and it has served me well ever since. I’m actually amazed that this isn’t more well known, so I try to spread the good word every chance I get and this seemed like a good platform!
This was EXCELLENT. I wish I'd know all of these tips when I was a horny teenager with willing girlfriends. Had I known all this, I would have had keep them around a lot longer than I managed to - Especially the one's who WANTED to give me head regularly and even the one's who didn't.
hope this helps my women!...of course, i'd love to help them achieve their goal...
I have a number of opportunities to give head. What I have found is instead of deepthroating a cock it is much more beneficial if I make love to it. I believe some people are afraid the owner won't cum and treat the organ like it is a pump or needs to be deep throated. After such procedures the owner will feel like he has had a rigorous workout rather than an enjoyable experience. I would much rather go slow and have spent an evening servicing my partner's penis. Hopefully I will eventually be rewarded but haven't had any complaints regardless of outcome. More often I get a surprised expression, with the owner not expeccting my mouth to be on his penis. I look up and simply say "surprised?"